What should i do?? please help me decide!?

Honey, they BOTH posses their own excellent "qualities" in their own separate ways, BUT I truly don't feel you'll end up seriously with either one of them in a quality lasting relationship for one reason or another unless "one" has a change to it. Yes you speak highly & respectfully of EACH one but it just seems to appear something is missing with each one! I feel you DO want to have a serious relationship especially with the one more than the other, but it seems to me there's something about him that seems to intimidate you about him. I DO however feel in time you would be able to overcome this obstacle & find out just the cause of it for whatever reason. It is quite possible you just could end up with this person! Only time will tell. I would however say to let go of the one who seems to be pursuing you, don't waste his time or yours with him. Just let him go & put him in your past & leave him there, Be honest with him tho so he has the opportunity to at least move on in fairness to him...the best to you, honey...:)