What would you do to help you cope?

well first of all she s not ready for a true long commitment or even you as special friend.in her eyes your just a guy she know s and her friend s are the one s she want s .sorry i m picturing her with her friend s parting, laughing away and you show up and you say something like, hey my love having a good time and everyone just bust out laughing.why? you just made a fool of yourself.which they might see it two way s .one he s a sucker,two she just got in a spot where she made herself not so good and everyone is thinking not so good thing of her but funny in all.i ve seen this action in a bar with her husband ,she had fling at the bar,they split up,that is husband. latter on like weeks she was in a restaurant ridiculing her husband on with her friends and she was with her fling all laughing about it.be a man ditch that witch,sorry but you ask.i bet once you do that you ll get an ear full of cackling.